Michael Valdez has done something no one else in real estate can claim: opened 86 countries for seven different brands. Deutsche Bank for a decade. Fifteen years with Realogy and Sotheby's, five of them living in Europe. Chief growth officer at EXP, where he helped scale from 20,000 agents to just shy of 90,000 in under three years. Today he is CEO of LPT International, global president of Aperture, and the author of Fire Your Friends. And when he talks about AI, he does not talk about tools. He talks about people.
"Tomorrow Is Never Promised"
Michael's drive traces back to his father — born in Cuba, Batista's attorney, a political prisoner released during the Bay of Pigs in a prisoner exchange. The lesson passed down was simple and permanent: tomorrow is never promised, so work the hardest you can today. Michael describes growing up feeling there was no safety net, which is exactly the pressure that produces someone who opens 86 countries.
He is blunt about the mythology of success: "There is no secret sauce. If somebody outworks somebody else, that's the person that's going to win." Every overnight success is twenty years in the making. Hustle beats talent, every single day.
Technology Is the Great Equalizer
Michael has watched the full arc — the internet arriving during his banking years in the late 90s, real estate's repeated cycle of chasing technology, abandoning people, then rediscovering relationships. His conclusion after all of it: technology never replaces the relationship. It expands it.
But the equalizing effect is where the conversation gets serious. You can no longer buy your way to the top. The team doing 500 deals a year that used to bury you in marketing spend has no structural moat anymore. A newcomer who is genuinely excellent at content, social, and AI-assisted service can outrank a ten-year-old brand in a market — because the consumer is choosing based on relevance and trust, not billboard budget.
As Michael put it, the newcomer may not have the track record, but they can have the relationship. And the buyer will call the person they already feel connected to.
A Job vs. A Career: The Line AI Will Draw
Michael's framing here is the sharpest idea in the episode. A job is transactional. A career creates value.
Anything transactional can and probably will be automated. Anything that creates value for another human — and uses technology to make that value greater — becomes invaluable. Same technology. Two completely different outcomes, decided entirely by the person holding it.
His example: the social media manager making $50,000 who is "about to be replaced" could instead use AI to build a social media management company. Nobody needs a human to post reels anymore — the tooling handles that. What every business owner is desperate for is a strategist who can build a brand. The cards being dealt are the same. The play is different.
This is not optional in real estate, where roughly 80% of agents fail in their first two years — largely because they treat the license like a job instead of a business. AI is going to accelerate that filter considerably.
ChatGPT Is the New Global MLS
This is the practical takeaway every agent and business owner should act on this week. Michael's point: AI assistants are effectively becoming a global MLS. Ask for the top 10 agents in Ottawa and you get ten names. If you are not one of them, you have two options — panic, or ask the far better question:
"Give me the blueprint on how I come up as a result for the next user who asks that question."
It will hand you twenty steps. That is the entire game now. Not complaining about visibility, but reverse-engineering it.
On the daily practical side, Michael listed the unglamorous wins that add up: drafting and reviewing listing agreements and contracts, uploading listings and photos to MLS, and virtual staging in ten different formats instead of paying a staging company. His rule for all of it: look at it from the point of view of the user. If you are the buyer looking at this listing, what do you need to see?
Your Brokerage Is Making the Same Choice You Are
Individuals and teams will either embrace or reject AI — and so will brokerages. That divergence is already visible in the industry's consolidation and shakeups. If your brokerage is spending its energy on its own growth story rather than on making you more capable, that is a data point worth taking seriously.
What Michael describes at LPT is the counterweight: leadership that includes top-producing agents, 250 travel days a year spent at agent events on the ground, and decisions made with the agent's interest front of mind. His reasoning is human, not corporate — a single team leader affects thousands of families, and every agent, no matter how successful, starts from zero every morning at somebody's kitchen table trying to earn a listing.
High IQ, High EQ, and Why That Combination Wins
Technology only works when someone understands the human element well enough to aim it. Michael calls that combination — very high IQ paired with very high EQ — a unicorn, and it is exactly what separates a company that uses AI well from one that just buys software. The technology is not replacing the relationship. It is enhancing it. That requires someone who actually understands the relationship first.
Time Is the Only Finite Asset
Michael will be 60 this year and is fully immersed in technology, which makes him allergic to the "I'm too old for this" excuse. He calls it a self-limiting belief and quotes Henry Ford: whether you believe you can or believe you can't, either way you're right.
His discipline is calendar-first. "Unless it's in your calendar, it doesn't exist." Up at five, gym, then in. And when he is in a conversation, twenty text messages can wait, because someone else owns that slot.
The exercise he recommends — and admits he hates — is logging every activity for a full day. Then decide what you want to earn in a year, break it down to a daily and hourly value, and price your own behaviour. Two and a half hours cleaning the house might have cost you $2,000. A cleaner costs $100. That's not laziness; that's arithmetic.
Where it gets human: the same math applied to your daughter's piano recital. Michael's answer is that you have to switch lenses. To a four-year-old with no concept of money, those sixty minutes are priceless — and because you are using her lens, they should be priceless to you too. Money is effectively infinite. Time is not.
Fire Your Friends
Michael's book, Fire Your Friends, is built on an uncomfortable truth: the people who helped you reach one level are often not the people who can take you to the next. It is not a licence to be cold. It is an honest audit of the circle around you, done respectfully — and often the real move isn't firing anyone, it's deliberately adding people who operate at the level you're heading toward.
The Final Thought: Quiet the Noise
Asked for one message to realtors and business owners, Michael did not hedge:
"Quiet the noise. Go back to basics. We are here to serve our consumers at the highest level. That is your only job. And if you do that well, you will be compensated."
There is enormous noise in North American real estate right now, and consumers are confused by it. You hold the licence. You are the trusted expert. Your job is to reduce the noise for them, not add to it. Do that effectively and everyone wins.
Michael Valdez is CEO of LPT International, global president of Aperture, and author of Fire Your Friends, available on Amazon.
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Frequently asked questions
Who is Michael Valdez?
Michael Valdez is the CEO of LPT International and global president of Aperture, and the author of Fire Your Friends. He spent 10 years as an investment banker at Deutsche Bank, 15 years with Realogy and the Sotheby's brand including five years living in Europe, and served as chief growth officer at EXP where he helped scale the company from 20,000 to nearly 90,000 agents in under three years. He has opened 86 countries for seven different real estate brands.
Why does Michael Valdez call technology the great equalizer?
Because visibility can no longer be purchased. AI and social platforms mean a newcomer who executes well on content, relationships, and AI-assisted service can outrank an established team that has dominated a market for a decade on marketing spend alone.
What is the difference between a job and a career in an AI economy?
Michael Valdez defines a job as transactional and a career as value-creating. Anything transactional can and likely will be automated. Anyone who creates real value for another person and uses AI to make that value greater becomes more valuable, not less.
How should real estate agents use AI to get found?
Treat AI assistants like a global MLS. Ask the assistant who the top agents in your market are, and if you are not listed, ask it for the blueprint on how to become one of the results for the next person who asks. Then execute the steps it gives you.
What practical AI tasks did Michael Valdez recommend for agents?
Drafting and reviewing listing agreements and contracts, uploading listings and photography to MLS, and virtual staging in multiple formats instead of hiring a staging company. He also stresses reviewing everything from the buyer's point of view.